Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Having a Baby Doesn't Make You a Mother!!!!!

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Every so often a story hits the presses or a news feed that can challenge the strongest believers faith and conviction. Today, the story that challenged my faith in humanity is that awful occurrence in Texas. For those who haven't heard, a mother was arrested for sexually assaulting her 5 or 6 yr old child. I never thought I would hear a story where molestation would've been kinder than what actually occurred; and today was the day I did. This sick idiot (clearly upset and not thinking straight) ripped her sons' scrotum from his body, glued it back on with super glue, and then put him to bed with paper towel shoved in his underwear (I guess to serve as a bandage of some sort). Even now as I write this it brings tears to my eyes, lethargy to my spirit, and shame to my heart. What kind of monster are you to think of such a thing? What depraved kind of demon must you be to carry this out? As a practically minded individual I tend to lean toward rationalization in bizarre or unimaginable circumstances in life; but this one right here, there are no reasons in heaven or hell that could even begin to rationalize this horrific tragedy. The fear that child must have experienced throughout that entire ordeal had to be bitterly overwhelming; and the fact that he survived it at all is a miracle in itself. God bless you, brave little soul; and may all the blessings in heaven be bestowed upon you.

Having a baby doesn't make you a mother, and not every mother gave birth to her child. It's funny how we have to be tested, verified, or certified for most roles we play out in life; except for parenthood, which is the most important role any human being will ever play in their existence. I'm almost certain there are at least a handful of people around wishing they had intervened before this happened to that child. Clearly the woman is sick in her head, and it didn't  just happen over night! Personally I don't care how sick she! They better throw the whole library at her crazy ass; and then pick up every book, and throw them all again! As compassionate as I am, honestly speaking I do not care what happens to this person; and I don't think they have invented a punishment that can fit this crime. Whatever they convict this woman of, max time warranted; and that will have to do until she burns in hell. What I'm saying maybe harsh, and not everyone will agree with my views. All I know is as a mother myself, she dishonored and violated every code a mother is charged with the second she decides to bring life into this world. If you can look at your baby and willing do harm to that child, in my opinion you are capable of anything, and it is obvious that life has little value to you. If your having a bad mommy day get a babysitter, call a family member over to watch the child. Or, if you have no one lock yourself in a room for a spell til you shake off the crazy! But, never ever is it an option to mutilate a child whether its Yours or Someone Else's!!!!  

We've all had bad mommy days in raising our families; and some weeks they appeared to be never ending. We all have our angels and little bad asses, children all have their moments of WTH, and we pray to God for the ability to end the day without having to say WT*! Usually how it works out is the annoying child does the cutest thing ever; and then they become little angels all over again- before the next round of temper tantrums... then repeat the same format the following day! It's not rocket science, its just FAMILY; and being a MOM is a roller coaster ride! At times it can be a thankless job; and sometimes the appreciation shown becomes so overwhelming, it could take your breath away. Its patience (or the lack there of) which truly paints the perception, of the context from where you gain access to your view of motherhood; to break that down simply put, loving or hating your motherhood experience is a choice! It's a job that ain't for everyone, though almost anyone can get the job; and what I wish right now more than anything, is that someone should had fired that broad before she did a job on her son. Advice from other moms (whether friends or family) always helped me through the rough mommy days. Some of the advice actually worked from time to time; and other days it was just nice to have a supportive ear, or hear an encouraging word. As always, I attached a link above with great discipline alternatives as well as practices for young or new parents. Maybe if someone had given that woman this book, her son wouldn't be forced to experienced PTSD for God only knows how long. Please let us all pray for the quick recovery and future well being of this child. I think he has earned our prayers. #patienceisavirtue #familygrind

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